We all have relationships with moments that are to be cherished. Some of these moments are cherished and kept between the two people in that relationship. Everybody has at least one of these moments. The peace that we have while keeping this moments to ourselves, breaks when we share them with another outside the relationship. In this case it’s the best friend. It’s his best-friend or her best-friend, it doesn’t matter. The best friend is a real issue, because she knows too much.
I am in a great relationship, happy, satisfied, and content. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We are best friends and everything. In the starting phase of our relationship, this was the first year, my man shared a lot with his female best friend. That is what I respect, because they were best-friends before I came along. But it became a problem when he told her my intimate moments. That is not okay. You don’t tell a female how you do your lady. She might end up wanting what we have. I told him to choose between me and her. Do you think it is okay to for the best friend to know our intimacy?
I don’t like the best friend role at all. I was in a relationship that lasted for a year. His best friend got to know our intimate moment. At the time, I was okay with it. Until three months after we broke up, she ended up being his girl. No need to ask how that came about. I say it’s a no no.
--- Michelle,
Leave your comment below. We need to know how men feel about this issue. Is it okay to tell the best-friend about intimate moments with our lovers?
I think that intimate moments should happen between 2 and every info in that should stay there. If you can shut up about it, he can do so to. Its disrespectful to share, without your lady or man knowing any of it. It gives best-frien way too much info that is not for her. It seems as if thr best-friend become their new man or woman along the line. Very killing to a relationship. Very, very killing.
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